As Tanya said, welcome to the club, that nobody wants to join, but now you are here, i am sure you will be glad to have found others who are going or have been through the journey, I was lucky enough to have a lumpectomy, but then had chemo, radio and am now on hormone (arimidex) for 5 years, but all is well, living in a rural area there are no support groups around here, but, comming on here and chatting to others has been so good, even if it was after i finished treatment, as we know its great to have support of family and friends, but an added bonus to have others to talk to, who know what we are feeling, feel free to add me as a contact, and please keep in touch with us all, by helping yourself, you will be able to help others. Regards Moira