Hi there snazzy, I am glad to hear from you. I understand you wanting to have complete secrecacy in a group like this, unfortunately if we make the group secret other women may not be able to find the group when they search for support groups on FB.
The good thing about the BCNA Breast Reconstruction Online Group is that your identity is protected unless you choose to disclose it. I know you have expressed interest in joining, and if you can just click the 'join' button we can accept the request.
At present the blog part of that group is working so members can connect, but the larger content and personal stories, resources etc are not yet available since the changed website.
It is great to have the luxury of both types of communities and hope to chat again soon.
XXXLouie
