Hi jan I found it was the first few months with the pain then it slowly resolved I take one day at a time -I try not to make if a focus of my life I get on the merrygoround and step off at appropriate times - it's a real pain in the a*** at times but I have my life and my family support me even though they don't live near us I luv my job and my husband is very understanding most of the time :) I know that's not the case for everyone - most of the time everything sits in the background and then sometimes hits me like a hammer (red wine helps on those occasions :)) message me any time :) Bonnie
