Your mum sounds like she is from the generation who sweep things under the carpet and don't dare mention the big c.I think that's pretty harsh to say that to you but then I wonder if it's all just too painful for her to have a daughter go through bc. Physically it takes a good few months to get your energy somewhat back but mentally/emotionally it takes alot longer.From your name can I presume you are in the one boob brigade like me?It takes alot of getting used to.I've had breast cancer twice and I think my husband has learnt to listen to me without offerring a solution all the time.We just need to be heard and have a hug - tell your partner that. You can blog here anytime for support or to just vent your feelings.We know what you've been through and there is a real sisterhood here at this network.
Tonya xx