Hi Leigh,
I have a 5 yr old and 9 yr old and no hair. Half way through TC chemo.
I also spoke to the school and I also let the kids cut my long hair which they loved and still talk about it. We had a lsugh.
I wear a wig for school pickups and drop offs as my daughter keeps asking if I will wear it before we leave the house. I have worn hats and scarfs to go shopping etc but school seems to be the only sensitive place for her.
We have cried together at times, think it actually helps them see that we have our down moments.
They both now walk around and pat my head,my little one tickles me lots. He dosnt understand much, forgot to tell his kinder teacher, but he did!!
You'll be surprised at how the kids will react.
Happy to answer any questions.
Good luck
Julia