Ooops - oh yeah, I forgot to mention the sleepless nights, Kate!! HEAPS of them! LOL Menopause is ANOTHER thing that just keeps on 'giving'!
The anger that you are feeling would well be within the 'normal menopause symptoms', Kate - mine was more a 'RAGE' than just 'anger'. Internally I would be seething, whilst appearing to be 'normal' on the outside.
Oprah Winfrey had some extreme side effects from Menopause but thought she was having a heart attack - as palpitations can also be a symptom! She spent HEAPS of $ on seeing specialists & hospital visits and not being diagnosed for Menopause, then she found this book! The Wisdom of Menopause by Christiane Winthrup ....I recognised myself within the very first page!! I had a copy, but loaned it to someone & never got it back! :( See if the Library has a copy that you can borrow!