Not lazy but maybe accepting of your situation, I know it took me and still takes me no end of apologies and sorries to get through a day with not going to help my hubby at work and I am just finished 6 weeks of rads after 6 rounds of TCH, 3 breast surgeries and and emergency surgery for a Bartholins' abscess which was brought on by chemo low blood counts.
Hell woman I didn't even want to get out of bed to pee so we deserve a rest, a break and every bloody thing else we ask or don't ask for, wouldn't you do the same for others?
That is what my family and friends threw down my throat and you know it's true, I know it's true and those that love you know it too so accept, it really ain't that hard once you start.
Cheers
Cheryl D