Gosh Joey if you can't lie around whilst on chemo for cancer when can you??Ofcourse you can't work when you feel so terrible- I couldn't, I just took sick leave/long service.I didn't want the added pressure of wondering if I'd be ok for work.Probably the most you are capable of doing right now would be watching dvds and flipping through trashy magazines.Why are we women plagued by the "guilt"gene? When my husband retired he felt guilty for about 5 mins for not working.I threw my job in 6 months ago -I'm 56-but am still having guilt pangs. You shouldn't be worrying about anything else but resting and drinking lots of fluids - there! I've said it- and it's what you already know.Go abit easier on yourself Joey.
Tonya xx