Hi Chris and Sue,
Thanks for the encouragement about the other lady you know who went with DP for one DIEP and one implant. It's good to hear she looks great. I don't have a surgery date yet but i think I may make some calls tomorrow and see what I can organise. DP is saying he wants to wait 3 months after radio before he will operate. I thought perhaps in that time I could have the other mastectomy and expander, and then by time 3 months is up he'll be able to swop it for silicone when he does the DIEP on the other side. Other wise its a long wait for anything to get done. It really feel its dragging everything out. I thought it may be a two month wait (which is still long!). I want to give him a call and see if he will negotiate!
Thanks for your advice. I'm glad you're doing so well.
Sue how are you feeling about the surgery. How many times have you met with DP to plan surgery? Had you had radio and needed a wait time?
Heather