Hi Bevvzy as mum2jj said I am also a paraplegic. I trawled the internet for info on paraplegics with breast cancer, even the equivalents to this site & the cancer council & couldn't find anything. I was diagnosed last Jan & just muddled my way through. I noticed you mentioned you wanted to connect with someone your age (I think that was you lol) I'm 52 & in Adelaide. The other wonderful ladies here have said lots of things which I totally agree with so I won't go into that stuff. I am more than happy for you to contact me for support & if you want my phone number just PM me. Like I said I couldn't find any supports out there for paraplegics & the thing is it doesn't just stop at surgery. The differences for us change throught out the whole process.
Keep your chin up. Take lots of deep breaths. Lots of hugs XXX