Decisions... Help and Advice Please

Thanks for being so candid Tonya.  It is a major part of a relationship that is forgotten.  I am forever saying "look out don't touch my boob" and it is quite hilarious in the heat of the moment.  This left boob has now been "zapped" twice so it will be a louder scream from now on.  My poor husband is always so apologetic and of course hates to think that he may have hurt me.  Anne-Maree - My husband loves my breasts and four years ago when I was diagnosed, the thought of losing them was overwhelming for him.  The night before surgery (lumpectomy) we discussed that if there was a need that the boob would go.  Anyway it is still here but again last night I said that if there is ever a "next time" they both would be gone!!!  And he agreed.  XLeonie  PS  There is definately NEVER going to be a next time.  I have done/am doing my penance.