Hi Jo
I had the decision made for me by the oncologist even though I only had a stage one tumour. It was agressive and carried on all three receptors. In spite of how difficult it was, three rounds of FEC followed by three rounds of Doxitaxel, then six weeks of radiation, I'm still glad I did it. Mostly because now I know that I have done everything that I could do to make sure that this was knocked on the head! Should it come back, at least it won't be because of anything thing I left undone.
This is your choice, you are the one who has to go through this experience, no one else. Whatever your choice I hope that you have lots of people to love and support you and that you are OK.
Take care of yourself and let others take care of you too. Hugs, Amanda