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Samantha_Jane's avatar
11 years ago

Decision Time

Hi lovely ladies, So just wanted to see if anyone had any thoughts. I saw the oncologist for the first time on Thursday and she has given me the following results....cancer all removed, clear margins, no lymphnode involvement, Grade 3, TNBC. She then advised due to the above and my age, 36, that she would like to hit me hard with chemo. I was a little in shock! I thought ok they got it all and I will have chemo but I didn't expect t her to say hit it hard. She has given me the following treatment plan....4cycles every fortnight of AC and then 12 weeks of Taxol. She did mention a treatment plan of less time but emphasised due to my age and the TNBC she felt I needed to do the harder one? I am able to ponder over the weekend and get back to her on Monday. As I said she was really lovely and not pushy at all. I just am a little confused, I can't make up my mind in a sandwich shop, let alone pick what treatment plan I want. And hey wouldn't we all love to just pick the easier option if it was really that easy? My husbands reaction to her diagnosis tells me the harder plan is the right one but I really value all you ladies offerings experiencing this in real time!!!! So is anyone able to offer anything on the below? - I have noticed a lot of TNBC ladies are on FEC? Is there a reason as this wasn't offered to me. - Can anyone offer there experience good or bad with the port. I'm thinking of it, as I hate needles. I know I'll have to get over that but it seems a better option if I hate needles? - I did ask why, what would you do, what if I don't? Side effects etc is there anything I should really need to know. - I am thinking of going Private patient in public hospital. She tells me I will get the same treatment. The only difference is in the private I will pay for my meds and excess each time if I have one and the consult , but if I go through the Public I will pay for the chemo drugs and that's it. Is there any pros and cons to this or anything I should know? Thank you so much for helping me out, I just need some help. I am staying strong and completely positive but these decisions are really draining.

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