Deciding on Reconstruction or not

Hi Pauline, I also had a double mastectomy and reconstruction, and it wasn't too bad. You will be a bit stiff and sore, and have some drains, which are a pain in the neck, because they are always in the way. The staff at the hospital should give you a shoulder bag to carry them around which will make it easier. As far as personal tasks, you will be fine. The nurses had me up and in the shower the day after surgery, and though I was pretty slow, I was able to manage everything, and my worse side, (lymph node removal side) is my dominant side, and I managed. My wonderful mother in law would insist on doing my ironing, and would also bring some food with her. My kids ( all adult ) would put the washing on and off the line, and do the vaccuuming and things like that. Let them do those things for as long as you can. Thoses things really helped, and when people offer to help, let them, as it will really help you out, and they will feel useful. Good luck with your surgery. Love Chris xx