Hello again! As Donna says it is definitely time to put away your independence!Accept all help offered,and remember that the ones you love are helped BY helping! My husband often tells me now how useless he felt in those early days,when I always insisted on doing everything for myself!! I know now that I would have been much better off by allowing people to do the everyday stuff for me,therefore giving myself more time to concentrate on just me,whether it be just to rest,or perhaps take a walk, or shop,perhaps a massage? Or just peaceful time to think:)I doubt that you could be any more independent than me,but in the last year,I can honestly say that I have changed this ,and it's for the better.Ladies say on here that you will never feel as loved in your life as when you have Breast cancer.Its true!!!!! Cheers xoxRobyn