...when you feel up to it, once all the hair comes out, go & get your head massaged at a hairdresser. It sounds a bit silly, but l've been to my old hairdresser a few times now, & l have a nice glass of wine while he massages my scalp for ages over the basin with warm water, a scalp treatment, & a chat about this & that...all whilst in a massage recliner...it's lovely! I can't really do that now as l've had a henna tattoo done on my scalp & lm trying to preserve it by not wetting it too much. I never wear hats, scarves or wigs as l think it makes me look more like a cancer patient than a bald head! But, l realise not everyone feels this way, & the look good feel better workshop really emphasised that to me. Hopefully you find something that you're happy to wear and feel good in! Best of luck with it!