confused!

Hi Julie -- the notification or message will be in your inbox. The delivery system can be a bit confusing (we're working with our developers to see how we can improve it), but for now, the way it works is that any personal message, or notifications of new posts/comments, will come to your inbox as a message.

To get to your inbox you need to be logged in, then look at the right side of the page and you'll see a link in your pink profile box (under the heading 'messages').  If you click on that you'll go to your inbox and see any new messages there.  If it's a message from someone, when you click the link you'll be able to read it, if it's a notification about a comment or post, you'll see another link you can click to get to the post.

Hope that helps.

Di