Monica_S
13 years agoMember
Confused
Hi my names Monica, I'm 35 and was diagnosed last week with Breast Cancer. My mother had breast cancer and is no longer with me and my sister was diagnosed a year and half ago with breast cancer also....
I would do everything you can to improve your chances.
I always here people regretting not having a bi-latral. I am one of those. Now after a 2nd diagnoses at such a young age (29 now) I chose to have both taken off - no recon. The pain wasnt as bad as i thought they feed u so many pain killers. The drains are annoying but once there gone i would always feel better.
I think you should do what u feel is right. I would worry more about your emotional state than your pain state as the emotional stuff can stick around longer. I had a bi-latral for my emotional well being, not coz of the fear of re-occurance. hope this makes sense.
Sorry you have to go thru this.
Merylee