confused about treatment

Congratulations on your 20 yrs....sorry you're here though! I'm similar to you also, 41 ER and PR and Her2 positive. 2 x grade 2 multi focal. I finished chemo 5 weeks ago, herceptin till November, tamoxifen will start about May. I had 2 surgeries with clear nodes but no clear margins. That turned out good in the end because a further MRI revealed extensive DCIS. So now chemo is finished ill be having a double mastectomy and reconstruction in a few weeks. No radiation. Are you having AC then Taxol? They really hit us early 40's with her2 disease pretty hard according to my onc. Chemo was hard but doable. I've just returned to work, but still don't feel great, I'm trying to get back into exercise and fitness before the surgery. Little by little we mend I guess. Ladies like us have a long road to travel with treatment for so long. I hope you have good support around you, and keep in touch here. I completely agree with Simone about the port, you get used to it and it is easier for the nursing staff too. When will your chemo start? This is a great place to gather information to be really prepared. Top right is a search function. I'm happy to share whatever you might want to know... Take care Louie