Hi Avalon
What Christine has said has hit the nail on the head. The only thing I would like to add from my own experience was that very early in the peace I didn't really know what questions to ask. I sat and listened and once I got my pathology report back, I got the doctor to explain it to me (which I ended up asking him to do several times). Once I had that info I was able to learn more about treatments etc and more questions naturally started to follow.
The waiting is dreadful, so perhaps plan something nice on the weekend to give you something to look forward to. That's a good trick whilst your having treatment too!
Good luck with it all. Karen xox