Hi Andir - you are not alone I had my chemo first. I had Stage 3, grade 3 multifocal triple negative with 10 tumors ranging from 5cm to 1cm, My chemo was 12 rounds of taxol weekly followed by dose dense EC every two weeks. I then had a masectomy followed by 25 hits of raditaion.
The good news was that when i had my surgery the cancer was all dead. the chemo had done its job - it did not mean that I saved my breast but knowing the chemo worked and their was no cancer left in my breast or lymph nodes was a huge releif. I finished my trreatment just two weeks ago.
So don't worry that you are different. Hope this helps. Sue