Thank you all so much for your response... I am feeling very sad and tomorrow I'll go to work and have to put on a brave front..... My surgeon feels my nipple may have to go...not that I cared that much for it but today I do... I put my iPod on and walked and thought what the f..surgery on Thursday and then ?? I guess I'll just get on with it .?.as we do ....I felt joy getting your messages ....so once I get my head around this I promise to be more uplifting but for now I'm not feeling so fabulous xxx