Cant Take a Trick

Hi Paula , 

that is awful . My friends all but one have deserted me and I haven't heard from them in over 2 years. One lives 3 houses away and I thought we were really close but apparently not. I still see her around but I ignore her now. As for family , I'm one of 7 kids. Some rang once a week others monthly and one not at all. One sister had bowel cancer and another one uterine cancer , both in 2010 with her going through lung cancer now - don't know yet if it's a primary or a secondary. Now that sister has a whole new perspective of how I felt when I had breast cancer ( twice). I also nursed my dad , he had breast cancer too but died from lung cancer. I don't think you should be chasing them via phone calls either, but it's usually one member that does it all. So sorry your feeling so hurt and unloved , I know exactly how your feeling and your entitled to be upset and emotional. My support was my daughter aged 22. She came with me to chemo and we played Millionaire on her laptop and she made me laugh. 

I had a growth on my lungs too and it was benign but it was scary waiting on results. I really hope yours is nothing too. Try to stay strong , you'll find that you can be even when your crying. Wish you very happy results and a good recovery. Let me know how you get on if you don't mind. ??????Bep xx