I hated the blokes at work perving at my old size Fs, but when my reconstruction is finished, I won't mind so much as long as people aren't obvious about it. I want people to know that, even if you have a mastectomy, this is what breast cancer can look like. I used to think that breast cancer meant disfigurement but I know now that it doesn't have to and I want other people to know that too. I think that would help to get girls to check themselves and go along to mammograms.
Good luck on the TV,
Helen.