I know it's hard but fair doesn't really enter the argument. No-one deserves cancer or the treatment, and no it isn't easy. But please pause and consider that the treatment you are offered is offered because your medical adviser thinks it's your best protection against cancer continuing or recurring. You can of course get other opinions. And you can choose not to undertake any or some treatment. We've all been there. But treatment is often as much for those around us, who would miss us if we weren't there, as it is for ourselves.