bad day
today was a really bad day for me.my hubby was acting like a spoilt little kid. I have brought my kids up better than how he was acting and i am getting so sick of it coming from him.
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Hey Daniel, you are normal, i think we all have had times where we have snapped at the kids , grandkids and especially husbands and they to us, i agree with Leonie, some of their anger is fear and helplessness men are always the one to protect and be the strong one's that fix every thing but cancer changes all this. it turns all we have and are upside down and it is never the same again. they get frustrated by all this and at times take it out on us . don't be hard on him or yourself it is a major major adjustment. it's not just the cancer it's who and what we were. our sexuality is changed and our sex lives everything and they have to adjust to all this too and it can be hard for them to understand why at times we dont want to be touched.
all the medications change our moods and hormones etc and at times i know i am the bitch from hell but he can be the bastard from hell at times too.
make you time just you and him ,
i know i dont cop any crap now and if i don't want to say or do something i dont . cancer changes us all , but be patient and tell each other you love each other never go out or to bed angry , and remember how lucky you really are, hard at times i know but i always feel there are others worse off,
remember all the good , take care love Fran