bad day
today was a really bad day for me.my hubby was acting like a spoilt little kid. I have brought my kids up better than how he was acting and i am getting so sick of it coming from him.
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Danielle, From my perspective I have seen other husbands act like this too - mine included. You know what it is? They are terrified of losing us and this is how it comes out. Their anger is really directed at the bc but unfortunately it comes at us. Every so often - and it is getting less and less - I have to sit down with my husband and have a "chat to chat". It is amazing what comes out. Life is not the same after bc - it is such a big adjustment. Just when my husband and I were starting to "relax" the bloody bc came back again. It is a bit like an annoying relative - always lurking and a PITA. When my husband lets his guard down and "really" talks to me - he says that he is so scared. Me too but I am not letting bc destroy my quality of life any more than what is out of my control. Be kind to yourself and show your husband that you are okay. XLeonie