It is so nice to feel the friendship that comes through with each post e.g. Leonie/ShirlO/Moira1, it's very important to have someone to communicate with when you are going through treatment. I can relate to a comment made in the post by Lyn Swinburne in early February. When I was diagnosed with breast cancer in November 1990, I made a point of visiting my Mum the weekend before I was due to have a mastectomy, so she could see that I was still the same Kaye. When I told Mum that I was determined to be back at my job at a high school in the new year, I caught the look that passed from my mother to my husband clearly showing that she did not share my optimism.
I did go back to school in the new year and had chemo for six months. Looking back, I don't know how I did it, I had 3 children, 16,10 and 6 who all handled the situation in very different ways, but I was incredibly lucky with support from family and friends. It must be extremely stressful if you don't have family or friends around at a time like that.
Like Lyn I am also planning on retiring this year and having time to enjoy gardening, reading and movies. I am also interested in volunteering with various organizations.
I am very slack at replying to e-mails, posts, facebook etc. so if a few months pass and I remain non communicative, please don't take it personally