I am so sorry you have had a bad experience with your surgery Kitty25. Maybe it is worth posting a blog of your own so you can get some feedback from others too - they may have trouble finding your post here.
Have your surgeons given you options for reconstructive surgery? have you had any physiotherapy for your arm?
All of this gives your self-esteem a kick in the guts but you are more than your body and can triumph over this. Those who love you will see past this. Perhaps that all sounds a little cliche - I'm trying to be positive but it may be worth talking it through with a counsellor or your breast care nurse to get some help sorting through it all both physically and emotionally.
It's ok to cry too - it's probably really good to cry.
Thinking of you.
Amanda xx
