I'm so sorry you are on this journey again and going through the separation from you husband. I hope that you are 'soldiering on' for the want of a better phrase. Life is a bummer sometimes. Do you have support from other family and friends?
There is a group called 'South East and Bayside Social Group' which might be good for you. I'm not a member but have 'blogged' with some of the ladies and they sound like a fun and happy group. Their link is
http://www.bcna.org.au/group/24396. Have a chat with the ladies there.
I facilitate a group called the 'Melbournites' and we meet in the City for lunch once a month. Our group link is
http://www.bcna.org.au/group/70587
Good luck on your second journey. I'm sending you a big hug.
Love Janey xxx