How beautifully written your blog post is:)I especially like"don't dwell on the past,you can't change it". I am sorry that you and your husband separated.but it is great that you remain friends.I think it would be very hard to face cancer alone,and I admire your strength and especially your positive outlook.All the best for your sea change:) We came from the south coast of NSW,and are actually thinking of going back there.I miss it,and life is too short to be doing things you really don't want to be doing.Take care of yourself. Love from. Robyn.xoxo