everytime I read a new story I feel sad. I am sad that you and your family and friends have to go through this. I am 47 and had a grade 3 stage 3a tumour I had a mastectomy in July followed by chemo and radiotherapy - the whole thing sucked. All I can suggest is that you take one day at a time and anytime you feel low make yourself do something to make you feel happy, even if you "silly dance" with your kids or bake some cupcakes - anything to make you feel normal for a while. You will have days when you feel fine - normally the 4-5 days before your next chemo treatment so make hay while the sun shines. Radiotheray will make you fatigued ( - differnt to tired) so take all the help you can get. Janet is right if you want to wear a wig - get one. I only wore hats and there are sites who deliver quickly and have a good selection. Life will go on and you have to let it - just believe you will get through this because the alternative is simply unacceptable. Kerry
