2nd Post Op Appointment

Hi Joy, just read your post. You sound very similar to me, I can understand what you are going through. You are right, even though you are expecting things, it's still upsetting. I literally saw my partner getting run down and he is now unwell which has put the household in a slump. As you said, our partners try so hard to stay strong, I have hid some tears, because I didn't want to be a greater burden. I, like you, put away my BC paperwork, I found when it was on our table it was a constant reminder. I only get it out now when I have an appointment. I like your mantra, we must be running along paralell lines, I know you haven't started treatment yet, maybe it's the anxiety that makes us similar. Anyhow Joy, take care and together all of us can make it through this.

Hazel xx