2am frustrations
I'm laying in the bath trying to figure out if l'm hot or cold...l had a sore throat last week that didn't go away, & despite taking care with it, it appears l now have a head cold /sinusitus with a s...
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Hey Yetbeung
Good on you for getting it all out there. This is the best place to do that cause we don't judge, we don't make those unwanted comments, we do understand when you wonder about having children and all those other things that are going through your head and you have to deal with, you know why cause "we get it".
I am sure the caring and luving family and freinds will understand and not expect you to have done the whole "Christmas thing" and it is okay for you not to be all enthused about this season.
You have to look after number one at this time. You need to just take it day by day, hour by hour and you don't need to be anything you don't want to be at this time as there will be plenty of time in your life for that.
Just flick off those unneeded comments from people who don't get it and gloss over it.
I so remember how my bath was my saviour (and still is). I poured Epsom salts in it or there are also other products available for you which will help soothe your aches and pains and some will even help you sleep. I remember when I was really unwell the difficulty in just getting out of the bath. I can look back now and have a good old belly laugh cause I pretty much must have looked like a beached whale flopping around in that bath and needingto roll over and get on all fours to try and get out - but at the time it wasn't funny cause it was just one of many things that makes the journey difficult.
Just do what you can hun and don't worry about the rest for now. Enjoy the hugs and the luv that comes your way and forget the rest.
Luv and best wishes, Mich xoxoxoxoxo