Another reason why we have to speak up about our bodies, we put our faith in doctors and most of the time we get the help we need, but in cases like this, well done for pushing the fact. i am sure the ladies who have had bi-lateral mastectomies will have hints and tips to help you fell more comfortable, meanwhile please keep comming back, and yes unfortunately like the rest of us here you are going through bc, and will go through good days and bad, but always make time for yourself and never knock back the help of outher. The positive side (if there is one) is you can now share your journey and experiences to help others through the site. and remember shouting bawling, laughing or any other feelings are allowed to be vented right here. Take Care and Regards Moira