Jensen, I think the thing is just be true to you no matter what that is, and great to investigate all things if you cannot work. I had a terrible time, Im a single parent and Centrelink were a nightmare, NO HELP at all! they deemed I would have to spend over $10,000 of my own money to support myself before they would help support me with sickness benefits. Ummm so Ive worked hard all my life paid my taxes and couldnt get assistance. I literally had to support myself for 3 months that I couldnt work. Thankfully I found by accident the clause of income protection that I didnt know existed. The universe was so looking out for me. What I learnt through it all is for me....its been about me and my body healing...not pushing myself to do more and be more...but to stop and put myself first something I never did. Everyone is different...but it has been the biggest positive to come out of the whole thing. Unfortunately Ive been doing this since 2011 and 2015 was a recurrence, I didnt learn my lesson and it was so apparent I just never made time for me...because before I left my marriage, my life was about everyone else...once I left and took my kids and started again, my life had to be about my kids only...its just the way it was and had to be....so when I got hit again...I listened to me...Im so blessed to have the 2 best kids in the world who have weathered the past 6yrs of pure hell and we are all so happy strangely lol because I now put me first so I can make sure everyone else is ok..xo