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2 years ago

The “journey” begins.

I was diagnosed with grade 2 IDC ER & PR + Her2- on 19/12. I am 50 years old, married with three teenagers at home, two homeschoolers, one working. 
I work as a nurse for NDIS. 
Getting the diagnosis just before Christmas was horrific. 
So far this has been my plan. 

Diagnosed 19/12
Follow up call from GP on 21/12 to see how I was
Nothing happens for a couple of weeks over Christmas/New Year. 
Bone scan and dye CT scan 5th Jan ( all clear and no lymph activity) 
Surgeons appt Jan 8th. 
She was lovely and very respectful ( had sat in on a couple of her operations on my surgical rounds)
She talked me through the process and I felt a lot better after that. She also examined me and noted that the lump that was the issue is not actually the cancer, it’s sitting next to it. I have type D density and very fibrous. 

She mentioned that it’s a tricky one to find and that she’ll need to follow a trail of breadcrumbs. Also mentioned that the cancer is sitting in a DCIS. I can’t find any info on others having that. 

Today I get the carbon tracer injected and she said that will attach to the cancer so she can see what to take. 
Next Tuesday I get the blue dye injection for the lymph node activity then Wednesday have the surgery. 
Nothing happened then everything happened!

All this appt making and  phone calls while attending a cricket carnival for my son 4 hours from home. 

My surgeon recommended this site and I’ve been lurking for a bit but today thought I’d share my story. 
I can’t believe this is happening and I’d love it to go away but it won’t and I need to remember how fortunate this happens in our public system. 

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  • Hi @MrsMorrisey
    Sorry to see you join our club.
    I was diagnosed very similar to you but on 22nd November so I'm a few weeks ahead of you.
    Yes - the absolute shock and 'what the..' and tests and appointments and scans and just 5 minutes ago life was trundling along and now there's a big plot twist.
    The people on this group are amazing - supportive, understanding, there's lots of shared info and experiences.
    There's a combination of public and private treatment journeys too.
    I've had WLE surgery at the end of November and the break over the festive season was really hard to navigate anxiety wise. 
    I'm still very much day at a time - I start radiation treatment in a couple of weeks.
    absolute best wishes for you and the next bit, I hope it all goes well.
    Kelly