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Rona
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2 years ago

Struggling through Chemo

Hi all,
My nurse has just introduced me to this group.
I’m hoping to connect and share my story and hopefully somehow feel better.
After being diagnosed and a short time later having a mastectomy and all lymph nodes removed, chemo started just before Christmas and I am struggling with it!
Ive got another 2 months of chemo before 5 weeks of Radiation…… would love to hear other stories.
I have a fantastic support group of family, friends and colleagues but they just can’t possibly understand what I’m going through.

Looking forward to connecting 😊

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  • Hi, 

    First time replying or posting anything here! 

    I feel like I could have written your post! I am however  behind you in timeline. Had a mastectomy, node clearance and recon on 14 December and started chemo last week (fortnightly AC x4, then weekly for 12 weeks). 

    I just wanted to reach out and say hi and you are not alone.

    I coped amazingly with surgery but fear chemo will be a bumpy ride (it already has been). I am also struggling emotionally as well. Before all this happened, I had a trip to Hawaii booked and would have been leaving Sunday. Wow how life has changed. 

    I also get having a great support system that can't possibly understand how this all feels,. I can't imagine doing all this without them, but they get to have a break from my hell hole while I have to live with it everyday. I feel guilt that I make them worry too. 

    Anyway, I know I have not helped, but what I take comfort from is that many sisters have been in our shoes before and have made it through. I refuse to let this be anything more than a chapter in my otherwise fantastic life book. 
  • Hello Rona, I've done 3 of 4 AC then on to 12 rounds of paclitaxel, then radiation. I'm lucky too to have a good support group around me, and my side effects have been relatively mild, but the fatigue floors me the first week after treatment. I flop about for about a week, before getting a 'good' week where I feel almost normal, catch up with a few people for hot chocolate (coffee now tastes musty) venture into the supermarket, just to get out of the house. Then into the next round. I'm hoping I might have a bit more energy with the paclitaxel, and maybe work from home a few days a week. Some days it feel like a very long road, but I keep telling myself it's for all for the greater good, and look forward to the beginning of June when the chemo side of things should be done. Katie