Still in shock

@Jodles

Welcome to the forum! 
Yeah I know easier said than done, but please try and keep away from Dr Google as it will only do your head in!  The diagnosis for us all is Breast Cancer but from thereon it is very individual.  We're all here to help you through and remember, as mentioned above, no question is ever too silly to ask - there's always someone on the forum any time of day or night that will come on  

The link  below will help you in preparing for what to pack for hospital

https://www.reclaimyourcurves.org.au/information-sheets.html

there's a welcome that our @SoldierCrab has put together which you will find very helpful

Below are a couple of links to help you find your way around the forum and also how to find a breast care nurse and how to order a MY journey Kit if you haven't got one yet. 

It can be a whirlwind when we first get a diagnosed.... Breathe and take it one step at a time. 

How to post on the main forum – use this link to get to the main forum and begin a new post. https://onlinenetwork.bcna.org.au/post/discussion

 

Navigating the online community formerly the what and how thread.

http://onlinenetwork.bcna.org.au/discussion/14879/navigating-the-online-community-formerly-the-what-and-how-thread

Breast Care Nurses

https://www.mcgrathfoundation.com.au/OurMission/OurNurses/FindANurse.aspx 

My Journey online tool and other resources. 

My Journey Online Tool resources
https://myjourney.org.au/hp/step5

https://www.bcna.org.au/resources/

BCNA Helpline 1800 500 258

If you have any questions, concerns or require any further information or support please call 1800 500 258. BCNA’s helpline will now be open from 9am-6pm Monday to Thursday and 9am to 5pm Fridays.  

 

How to understand your pathology reports

https://www.cancer.org/treatment/understanding-your-diagnosis/tests/understanding-your-pathology-report/breast-pathology/breast-cancer-pathology.html

Take care and best wishes

Thank you. I’ve read some great information on here xxx

Welcome @Jodles Sorry that you've had to find us but this forum is a great place for support, info and the odd laugh.

Thanks so much! The medical team have been amazing! They are moving things along very quickly. I know I’m in good hands. Staying positive xxx

Hi @Jodles.  Welcome to the forum.  So much good advice and support on here.  It is a lifeline. 

 Nobody else can quite understand unless you have been there.  

My initial biopsy report came back as "probably metastatic breast cancer".  There is no way anyone can prepare themselves for that news.  As it turned out thankfully it had not spread.
So the end result was lumpectomy, re excision for clearer margins, chemo, radiation.

It seems like such a long trip at the beginning and the emotional rollercoaster is indescribable.  This is totally normal.

Our brains like to conjure up worst case scenarios at the beginning and that's normal as well.  Distraction is probably the best course of action at the moment.  Keep yourself busy and do some things you enjoy.

Try to concentrate on one step at a time and don't Dr Google too much (we know you will :smile:)  No question here is to small or silly so ask away.

 Once you know what you are dealing with and have a plan of action you feel a little more in control.

I have just past my two year anniversary and it all just seems like yesterday.  

You will be ok lovely. Promise.  You'll get it done and we'll be here every step of the way fo you.  
One step at a time, one day at a time.  

xoxoxoxox

Thanks for your wisdom. Xxx

Hi @jodles Hang in there. There is no preparing for the news you have cancer and the feeling of shock and disbelief can be really overwhelming. None of us want to do this, but we muddle through somehow--you will too. Marg XX

Thanks so much! It’s great to have this support network of people experiencing the same things. Glad we can all help each other through our journeys. The waiting game is terrible but hopefully we can deal with whatever comes our way 💪🏻

@Jodles sorry u are here but the support u get here is amazing - don’t know how I would of gotten through my cancer diagnosis and treatment without this forum. This is the toughest time - thr wairing game to find out exactly what type of cancer u have and what treatment will be. Take care of yourself, vent here and make a list of any questions I can think of. Big hugs xoxox