Re febrile neutropenia ... round two

@Summerhill38 I did have a good laugh at your first comment because it is actually what the situation is. My dad is very supportive but will do anything for a quiet life, including ignoring some really horrible family behaviour. He thinks I am like my mum and stronger so tries to placate sister. I can't say her reaction is fear of losing me but more inability to give up her live in bf who is just 28 years younger and has wandering hands which I experienced on my first night back from my first chemo. I told dad and sister but bf remains in house.  We are all not on speaking terms. So I felt and feel quite vulnerable though I  put a sharp stop to it but if anything occurs again I will call the police. I spoke with a psych who said the whistleblower doesn't usually fare well ... the occurrence was put down to that he had flu and was delirious! My psych thought that was fairly imaginative! So more to do with sister refusing to accept losing bf and saying this was a storm in a teacup (involving my back and backside!). I am 52 and she is 50 so as an ex teacher I can't see the bf as as a fully grown man - more a Year 12 student. Which makes me accept that he could be silly enough to try this but sad that you would lack the compassion/morals/decency/respect for gf even tho running on testosterone. So whilst we were a nice middle class family when mum was alive, we seem to be heading towards an 8 Mile Eminem trailor flick now! I take heart in what you said about things might eventually come back to me or I will have access to them, and to concentrate on the non material. I just wish I didn't have to deal with this pretty disgusting behaviour now. Thank you Summer...it is comforting to know other people have family issues too. This week I am going to a BCNWA resilience training day!!! I :-#@)-; need it, pardon my French! It's timely! xxx Thinking of you.