Omg the EGO of that surgeon. Utter utter rubbish. Sack him. I 100% agree with @Sister, comprehensively unprofessional and totally reportable.
You get to be treated with care, consideration and kindness. You have every right to expect any doctor to do their best to heal you. For him to say something like that to you makes my blood boil.
Your determination, persistence and bravery is inspiring @Shann. I will keep my fingers crossed for you. K xox