Hello to all who have replied and thanks. I have been diagnosed with grade three invasive breast carcinoma , I have an MRI appointment booked, to see the anaesthist , surgery all happening quick which is good I guess. I wish everyone the very best ahead for their journey and my thoughts are with you all. I have ordered my journey pack thanks for asking. This one line site is great it's nice to talk to people who are on the same page again thanks for welcoming and your kind words