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Hi @Janine60 and welcome to the forum. Goodness you have a lot on your plate but hopefully everyone will be able to chip in to assist you and help get you thought this. I was diagnosed May 2016 with early stage BC think it was dcis, but it wasn't clearly identified. I had a 2.7cm malignant tumour and a satellite lesion in the left breast (lesion was benign). I decided to have a mastectomy simply because the benign lesion was abnormal cells that I didn't want lurking in my breast waiting for them to attack!! I was told that my tumour was aggressive and that I would definitely need chemotherapy and depending on whether there was any lymph node involvement would dictate radiotherapy. Because of where the tumour was my surgeon suggested a skin and nipple sparing mastectomy and I wanted immediate reconstruction with an implant which she agreed to. Had that done June 2016. Tumour turned out to be grade 1 stage 2. Lesion benign. No lymph node involvement. Because I had chosen mastectomy and no lymph nodes were involved no radiation. Because it was grade 1 with no lymph nodes no chemotherapy. I too am Er/PR+ Her2- so have been on Tamoxifen which has pushed me into menopause (was 50 when diagnosed so would have been facing menopause anyway!). Next July I will be swapped to an aromatase inhibitor as I am now in menopause these tablets will be more effective in stopping a recurrence. Am doing beautifully, thoroughly enjoying and appreciating life to the max. Have you joined the reconstruction group yet? 
http://onlinenetwork.bcna.org.au/group/1-choosing-breast-reconstruction ; there are photos about ladies reconstructions should you choose to go down the recon path. You just have to write why you'd like to join. More than happy to answer any questions. Xx Cath (sorry about the novel!)