Hi there @sister it’s a shitty thing to be here but so good that you have chosen to come onboard you will find heaps of great advice from many bc survivors from all different walks of life and backgrounds I was aged 43 may last year when I was diagnosed and all good for me now (3cm tumor left boob left mastectomy so I only had to have 8 rounds of chemo and no rads, scans all clear and negative for the gene and no family history right boob off as a preventative 6 months later). And remember so much as changed since 1999 since the sad passing of your lovely sister with treatment and survival rates so rest assured you will get all the reassurance and guidance you need with your bc too on this forum . My advice is don’t google anything, take the advice from your team and the lovelies on here and once you have all your results and a plan of attack it does feel better. And nothing wrong with your name... we are all “sisters” on here lovey. Biggest hug. Margie xx