Mastectomy this week-what to expect

It's all a bit of a muddle at first, isn't it? I had two days between confirmation of diagnosis and surgery, so wasn't very prepared at all. Didn't matter as the hospital looked after me well. The surgery itself is usually very straightforward, I was home in 4 days and very little pain. I was offered painkillers at every turn, but really didn't need them. I did manage to buy pyjamas, front opening is useful and without fiddly buttons, mine had a zip. Also had a hood with little ears but that's what happens when you buy things in a hurry!! Teabags or coffee bags are good as hospitals often can't get that quite right. Books, IPad, whatever you like to pass the time. I didn't get a free bra, I actually wore the same bra in and out, with a soft pad provided by the hospital. I had no problem, the bra did not sit on my scar line but apparently a soft bra is better. A phone call to your surgeon's office may clarify that. I didn't have reconstruction but it's an entirely personal decision and many women do. You can join the breast reconstruction group here when you are ready. Best wishes, it's a big step but in the right direction.