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cheezelbug
2 years agoMember
Lumpectomy didn't work - now what?
After being diagnosed on my 50th birthday, I'm now staring down the mastectomy path given we didn't get clear margins on the lumpectomy. No chemo or radiation required. Of course I've got the sta...
GorgyS
2 years agoMember
My case is similar to MrsMorrisey's. My big lump was very close to the armpit. I had a lumpectomy and re-excision, with lymph nodes removed as well. I was able to keep my nipple. Only one spot used. The shape and size of the breast are bearable, and with a bra, no one can notice anything. When I received the news of clear margins after the second operation, I was so happy, especially knowing there wouldn't be any more surgeries, at least for now. I celebrate every piece of good news and move forward.
If I didn't have the option for two surgeries to completely remove the lump and clear margins, I would have opted for a mastectomy, of course. I've never been one to prioritize cosmetic concerns over my health. As for the tests, scans, biopsies, blood tests, needles, and chemo that were never pleasant and often painful, I simply put them behind me.
If anyone ever asks me about what I've been through (and by 'anyone,' I mean people outside this network), no one will hear it from me unless I can help someone going through a similar experience. However, I will never forget the pain and the scars, which will always remind me of the journey that many women go through. How brave each of us are. <3. Even just going through the mammogram is so painful.
This week I will have an insertion of PICC catheter and I hope there will be less needle pains for chemo and blood tests.
all the best to all of us ( and men too)