Hi everyone
Wanting to share my experience of IVF in case other young women need some guidance.
Im currently day 8 of follicle stimulating hormone injections (FSH). Being young and quite fertile I have responded well to a small dose and this morning have several quality follicles on each ovary looking promising. I feel quite swollen and full everywhere, quite like I’m about to get a big period. I haven’t felt this way for a long time since taking a break from the OCP a few years back.
I am scheduled for an egg harvest Monday. These will then be fertilised with my husbands sample and hopefully most of those embryos survive to day 5 and can be frozen in time.
If you don’t have a partner at the time you can freeze eggs or use a sperm donor to create embryos.
If you’re reading this and have recently been diagnosed with breast cancer and are hopeful of a family in the future, my advice is to speak to a fertility doctor ASAP, even before you meet oncology if need be. This whole process has taken almost 5 weeks and my oncologists were very relieved I had sorted this out once I met them, as they advised they wouldn’t want any further delay in chemotherapy beginning. I will be starting chemo one week after egg collection and have no intention of pursuing another egg harvest if this isn’t successful, as that could detriment my health by delaying chemo.
Its all a big big learning curve if you’ve never looked into IVF, or even falling pregnant before. Heck I’m a nurse and know a fair bit about it but still had to do a lot of research to feel comfortable pursuing this.
The main thing is that this gives you an option if you feel you may want a child or more children in the future post cancer.
The good thing is that a lot of the cost will be covered by Medicare at the moment before treatment, as this is a medical reason for fertility preservation. My biggest expense will be the day surgery fee for the egg harvest (~$500) and the anaesthetist fee if they choose not to bulk bill me. If you have insurance these could be waived depending on your cover.
We then pay $480 annually for the cost of keeping them frozen.
If we choose to use them one day we then pay the costs any other woman would at the time for an IVF implantation etc
I hope this helps someone in the future :)
Feel free to message me if you ever need!