Day 2
Yesterday, I was told I had invasive ductal carcinoma. Today, to the surgeon where the options were to have a lumpectomy or my breast removed. Decisions,decisions.... still really in shock, it doesn'...
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Hi Amanda
I found my lump about a week earlier than you, and went from there to surgery within 3 weeks, via a gazillion tests! Yes, a whirlwind as you say. And now chemo on the horizon just when I'm feeling slightly more like a capable human being again.
My darling husband has been with me all the way; I'm pleased your parents will be with you. I just can't imagine how awful this would be on your own.
The great unknown of chemo starting next week is keeping me awake at night, but I'm gradually giving up my overly developed sense of responsibility for people at work, who can, realistically, look after themselves. I'm grieving for the wonderful program I was in the middle of delivering, but in the long run, those people are on their own path and will come under the influence of other wonderful people on their journey. I need to look after number one now.
Keep moving your arm! Go to the stretch point and hold, then push it just a bit. do this at least 4 times. I have found it get's more movement every day, although every day feels like you are starting from scratch again. Do this especially immediately after the first drainage, as it tightens up so quick! (within hours)
You are not alone! You said right.
Good luck
Cynthia