Hi @buster1 what a shock to be told one thing then another... Like Afraser said you sound like your team is very thorough which is a great thing .... Hate to imagine if they were not!!
Do you have a breast Care Nurse
https://www.mcgrathfoundation.com.au/OurMission/OurNurses/FindANurse.aspx I was 52 when diagnosed and I had bilateral mastectomy and chemo and rads and I am here NED (no evidence of Disease) 5 years later.
Take a breathe and relax tonight they have the phone in line open until 9pm if you feel you need to chat to someone ...
A reminder that the BCNA helpline is available this evening until 9 pm. We have a Cancer Nurse and Member services officer available to take your calls until 9 pm tonight EDST. If you have any questions or concerns please don't hesitate to call us. Our helpline provides free, confidential information, support and referral as required. Helpline hours are Monday, Wednesday & Friday 9.00 am to 5.00 pm and Tuesday & Thursday 9.00 am to 9.00 pm EDST.
Sorry you have need to join us but we are a really supportive bunch who get it....
SoldierCrab