@Ellamary98 The social pressure to drink is a funny thing eh? I'm greatly assisted by one of my best friends being a complete non-drinker. Her father was a terrible alcoholic and she swore never to drink. My biggest problem is my adorable 86yo father-in-law. When I stopped drinking completely at diagnosis, he kept offering me wine and chocolate making jokes when I politely declined, often with explanation. This went on almost daily for two months. In the end I had to ask my husband to ask him to stop. Now that I'm having the odd one he's started again bless him!